There are times when we want to be loved so badly that we will not take no for an answer. God’s whisper in our ears is being drowned out by the screams of passion sparking our imagination. The voice of reason has been beat down and shut up by our speeding heartbeats and heavy breathing.
Today may not be February 14th, but for us, it is Valentine’s Day and chocolate hearts are not the only sweets we want to consume.
After the loving, questions will arise that beg an answer. Where curiosity was an abstract concept, it now becomes a nagging reality that disturbs our feelings of bliss.
- Was this a love thing or just a booty call?
- Will we respect each other in the morning?
- Will God’s voice still be a distant echo struggling to be heard over our surging emotions?
- Will the love we made end up creating a mess that destroys our relationship?
But those inquiries will have to wait until after the love is gone. At this moment, our focus is: Sex Now, Questions Later.
2 comments:
Mr. Writer,
I could not agree more we must listen to hear God's voice at all times...seek his guidance in every situation and every day. We can not stop listen to our “daddy” because it is Valentine’s Day…Love is always in the Air (smile).
SAY NO!! Count the Spiritual Cost before entering deeper. You will see you have lost if you choose to have sex for the moment. Wow! Stop yourself before you wreck yourself…keep in mind time is something we can never get back, within a minutes of this action will be regret.
Guard your heart because out of the heart comes the issues of life…sex is never just sex but an issue of life…
I am not sure how a day of love and romance, has lead to just simple “minutes of pleasure”…God has a hand in everything and I can’t believe a day of love would turn into a moment of lust…I think because we do operate in the flesh at times and this is when we need to consistently seek His face…I want God more than just a minute of sex, I believe his love is far greater and his love endures forever…and there is a no greater love and LOVE does not change…but we do.
JUST SAY NO!
If I knew then what I know now, I would hold on to my virginity more than I do my snickers candy bar. But I am no longer a virgin and divorced with 3 kids. What do you do when you were sexually active for 20 years? Cold showers don't help. Is masturbation a sin as well?
You meet a person that you are really into and the sparks fly. You give in to those emotions. You are an adult and so is the other person. The only thing is now there is a connection.
God's voice is still there and you hear it loud and clear. The choice is do you continue with this or back off. Can you have sex with your "friend" and remain friends?
I say no, because one of you is going to become involved and want more than the other is willing to give. Then what happens when your "friend" becomes involved with a serious relationship. Your then "friend" has moved on. Can you handle that?
We do things in the moment and don't think about later. Maybe the "friend" is not a "friend" at all if they continue in that activity knowing that what is being done will end up hurting someone in the end. If that is a true "friend", the questions will come now and the sex will come later if not at all.
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